Cougars always keep a youngin on the roster!!

Ms. KiKi,

Here’s the deal…

I got me a youngin’. I’ve been bad, bad, bad…but good! LOL. He aint toooo young. 28. He a grown man! LOL.Ok…you are the “sex expert”…lol. Tell me this. Do younger men always ask a bunch of questions during sex like, “tell me what you want” and “how do you like it”. I mean, the men I’ve been with knew what to do and did it pretty well…didn’t have to ask a bunch of questions. Shit, I’m not that sexually aggressive so I don’t know how to answer questions like that:-).


I’m like…uhhhhm…. LOL

Dear uhhhhm….LOL!
YAAAAYYY!!!! Good for you!!! I’ve always said its good to have at LEAST ONE youngin on the roster!
I find that younger men do tend to ask questions… (assuming they are smart and unselfish) They want to make sure that they are pleasing you, so they ask. You have to remember that they subconsiously always feel like they have to prove to you that they are just as good if not better than men your age. Its a mental competition they have going on and lucky for you, you get to benefit from the fruits of their labor! LOL!
One thing is for certain…you dont have to be aggressive to know what you like! Dont be afraid tell him, if you dont..then who will? If it makes you feel more comfortable to tell him when you are NOT actually “doin the deed” then talk about it in a more nuetral situation! I recommend over the phone or email/text. I have found that to be a wonderul act of foreplay. Fix your face, and hush your mouth honey, lemme put you up on some game! Men are visual creatures, and they have great imaginations, thats why they tend to be voyuers and like porn so much. They like it because its a little naughty to have phone sex or e-sex. (a little trick that I’ve played w/one of my youngins is to give him a virtual lap dance via webcam, it drives him nuts…always rememeber that anticipation is the key!) He will then anticipate how he is going to please you because now he know what you like and you become more liberated by being able to talk about it. Its a situation I like to refer to it as “outercourse”…its a mental form of intercourse that can be just as erotic! Try sending him a text outta the blue with something really naughty and see how he responds…trust me it works like a charm!

About KiKiRichardson

Certified Life Coach (Interpersonal Relationships), Speaker, Radio Personality & Author of the Controversial book: "The Other Woman Code of Conduct: What every "other" woman should know...and MEN too!" Get your copy NOW! KiKi´s infectious energy, transparent style and sheer refusal to "blend in" has earned her the "Consummate Provocateur" moniker. KiKi the Certified Life Coach -- takes a firm, common sense approach with her clients, assisting them with taking ownership of their choices in order to affect positive change in their own lives. KiKi the Host of Playing Devil’s Advocate™ -- is no-holds barred. She dares her listeners to challenge societal norms and examine the “why?”. This radio show is for mature audiences and it is Uncensored, Unscripted, UNAPOLOGETIC! KiKi the Speaker -- uses her personal experiences to connect with her audience. She has an unapologetic contempt for conventional thought which has a way of getting the uncomfortable conversation started.

Posted on June 6, 2008, in cougars. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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