I’m STILL Mad as Hell!!–The Recap

I’m STILL Mad as Hell! — The Recap

Originally aired:

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

Now you know if we had a Part II to a show it was going to be just more controversial if not more than the first part. The chat room and the live audience that Sporty entertained last night were live and effect and did not hesitate to share their view on the various topics that we covered. We covered various topics that included teen sex, same sex couples raising children, up to the debate over the debt ceiling; so when I tell you that last night’s topic was heated and there was a lot to say and be heard-it was which is the reason why I am encouraging you to LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES if you missed the show!

KiKi read a letter that Sporty came upon written by the KKK members inviting them to celebrate Mighty Whitey Day last year to promote lynching as a part of their energy conservation…..HOLD UP!!!! I had to listen to that a few times because as the letter opened it stated that they were “Christians” and led into a heap of mess!! Now I’M MAD AS HELL…..AGAIN!!!! Oh, it is gets worse, MUCH worse so brace yourselves when you are listening midway through the archives.

Now our PDA letter was about a woman still receiving alimony from her husband while she is now remarried, the child uncovered that the mother was married and needed some advise on just how to address this with his parents or if they should at all. Let me say this-in the letter, the writer stated the stipulation was if the wife was to remarry (which she did) her alimony would terminate but she never reported the new marriage…tell me what are our thoughts on that? How do you think the child who is in the middle handle this because they are MAD AS HELL at the mother.

Rocky gave us a sports update and in case you didn’t know-THE LOCK OUT IS OVER FINALLY. Now we can get down to business and cheer on DA BEARS for the Super bowl 2012, woohooo let’s go BEARS!!!

We would love to hear your feedback, comments and suggestions on what you would like us to cover, your “Ask PDA” letters and what your thoughts are so email us!

We have created a fan line that we encourage you to call us, PDA has created a FAN line **862-438-KiKi** where you can call and a ask question, leave a comment, suggestion or a simple shout out (leave your message before 6p EST on Wed).

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Posted on July 28, 2011

KiKi, do you really believe your posts about being the other woman??

I was just asked if I believe what I post about my book on The Other Woman Code of Conduct Facebook page or is it just for laughs.
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Battle of the B*tches | The Recap (originally aired 8-3-11)

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The Battle of the B*tches — The Recap

Originally aired:

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

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Good afternoon class. Today’s phrase of the week is B.A.N (Bitch ass Nigga). A Bitch ass nigga in my opinion, is any guy that will throw another Man under the bus in pursuit of a Woman. Now doing B.A.N things, is not exclusive to MEN. You have Women that will throw their best girlfriend under a choo choo train over some dick. The following is a recap of our show last night on the discussion of who has more B.L.T (Bitch Like Tendencies)

If you tuned in last night, you had to have felt my rage coming through your phone and computer speakers. This epidemic of BITCHASSNESS was examined very closely. KiKi Richardson, Sassy Angel, myself and Rocky Miller bringing up the rear, gave everyone PRIME examples of BITCH behaivior coming from Men and Women. The chat room was off the hook with numerous postings. Our trusty and thorough producer Chandra gave us some spot on definitions in the chat room… some we said on air, and some you will have to request the transcripts to see for yourself!

We had a B.A. (BITCHAHOLICS ANONYMOUS) meeting last night. In the Class room, Board room and especially the COURT ROOM; this craziness just doesnt stop!

Our “Ask PDA Letter” brought out a new term for people to focus on. B.A.K. (Better Ask KiKi). This women told the writer the true signs and symptoms of true Bitch behavior. You know that I wish I could tell you much more about last night’s show, but that would be ME doing some B.N.S.(BITCH NIGGA SHIT), because then you wouldnt need to go to the archives to listen to it. So don’t act like a B.O.B.(BUNCH OF BITCHES) and check out the show. LOL!!

Todd Fountaine

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Posted on August 4, 2011

So, you’re a man…Really??

I recently had a conversation with a guy and my take-away was this:

Sometimes we lose touch with people & we forget why. Time passes & somehow you reconnect…Then you are quickly reminded WHY you lost touch w/them in the 1st place!

Without disclosing the entire details of the conversation…Let me pose this situation to you….. (Assuming I am older than you)

If while having a conversation with me, I continuously repeated how old I am & proceed to rattle off something like,

“I’m __yrs old and somehow over these years you think you have gotten smarter than me LIT-TLE BOY/GIRL…let me tell you something I seen guys/girls like you a million times…”

How would YOU take that???? How would take it if it were said to your sister/brother? How would you respond to it?

(I’ll wait….)

This interaction made me wonder…Since you continually repeat your age to validate your point; is that an attempt to convince YOURSELF or me that you are a MAN??

Ultimately, I instinctively knew then as much as I know now that his belligerent tirade had NOTHING to do with ME but more to do with how this man saw himself and felt about his shortcomings. Nonetheless, it was rather disturbing to think he believed his behavior was representative of how a MAN handles conflict or being challenged intellectually and in his 40+ yrs of living, nothing in his life had better equipped him….FURTHERMORE, he must have forgotten who I am…don’t worry though, I quickly gave him a crash course!

Here’s a hint: A real MAN will not attempt to elevate himself above a woman by demeaning her. In the grand scheme of things, you don’t have to respect me, but you will NOT disrespect me…Disrespect is NOT subjective! It is defined as:discourtesy; rudeness, treat without respect. Learn it, know it, GROW ON IT…don’t be a little boy in a grown man’s body your whole life…

TTFN…

: The Consummate Provocateur

Posted on August 9, 2011

A Moment of Reflection

Looking in the mirror…

As an Expert Life Coach with a specialization in Interpersonal Relationships, I am often asked, “What makes you an expert?” and a quote I once heard accurately reflects my sentiment:

“A man can only be an expert in something in which he has personal experience…”

When choosing a specialization I had to think long and hard about that thing that I have dealt with, struggled with and subsequently come to terms with; and it was clear…Interpersonal Relationships!!

Interpersonal Relationships are social associations, connections, or affiliations between two or more people; which can vary from intimate (marriage) to social (work).

BINGO!! There is nothing more in this world that I have personal experience with than Interpersonal Relationships! I am a daughter, sister, friend, co-worker, sorority member, entrepreneur, I’ve been a girlfriend and even a fiancee! However my conundrum was…how can I use that thing to be of service to others???

When I was training to become a Life Coach my instructor once said, “you must become your own first client”; that seemingly simple directive sent me on a painfully difficult personal journey of self realization that forced me to take self inventory and accept personal responsibility for my life and choices…the good, the bad and the ugly. I learned about who I am, what I believe, why I have made certain choices and most importantly my own personal “WHY”. Once that exercise commenced, I knew I was on my way to affecting a positive change in my life which would ultimately make me a better coach! (notice I didn’t say I completed the exercise…I am well aware that I am an ever evolving creature who will only complete this exercise when I die)

The best relationships I had were the ones where I felt free to be ME! (a few examples are:)

When I worked for someone else and I was allowed to work independently, be creative and had minimal restraints…I excelled!
When I was a younger and my parents took away the curfew and the big rules were lifted…I didn’t rebel and life was smooth for my sister & brother (because they didn’t have to cover & stick up for me)!
When I broke off an engagement because my fiance wanted to control who my friends were, what I wore and pretty much everything else…my life took a DRAMATIC change for the best professionally!
When I can say whatever I feel and/or think to my friends and they don’t judge me….I am the life of the party!

Once I was able to figure out my patterns, learn who I am, be accountable and find a balance in all of my relationships….things changed!!! I am the author of my reality and create everything that happens in it.

Simply put: I take what I do very seriously because as my clients learn and grow, so do I. I relate to you because I am you. I learn if I have some latent prejudices, insecurities and fears or some untapped strength, wisdom and foresight. As a life coach it is not my job to judge my clients, force them to buy into my belief system or measure up to a standard I have set for myself based on my own self-work, rather it is my job to mirror them and show them the exact behavior they exhibit.

As I sit in front of that mirror right now, my reflection shows me that the teacher has become the student. You all teach me more about me every day for which I am eternally grateful.

What is your “Why”??? What is that thing that drives and directs your every move?

TTFN…

: The Consummate Provocateur

Never Dim Your Light for Others to shine…NEVER Apologize for Being YOU!!

Have you ever talked to someone and said, “so what you are saying is…” and when you’re done, they say, “now that you put it like that, it sounds ridiculous, silly, selfish, ________ (fill in the blank)” ? Well that is what I do…I am that mirror!! I allow you to see for yourself!

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